I know the no-self-promo thing will be controversial and I know some people will be turned off but this but I strongly believe this is the right move.
Show me your skills as a DJ by showing me the music you love. Show me that you can find, curate be a tastemaker. Anyone can mix, anyone can do a jesus pose, anyone can record a set.
If I want to hear you play, I'll come listen to you live. It's better anyway.